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Kinky Feminists

07 Jun

Obviously, I’m not a radical feminist (like Andrea “sex is rape, pornography is the theory and rape is the practice” Dworkin, or Catharine MacKinnon who helped Dworkin with the Minneapolis pornography ordinance). I think ‘liberal feminist’ would be the label most suited to me; or ‘libertarian-feminist’. The F-word, for so long feared and jeered, seems to be coming back into its own as a result of recent (fourth-wave?) feminism exemplified by the 2011 SlutWalks, the feminist politics books and films about abstinence culture, rape, etc, and (American) political controversy over contraception. Cosmopolitan‘s campaign to bring back the F-word is probably influential, as a lot of the ‘feminist class’ (middle class educated women) read it. Naomi Wolf’s book The Beauty Myth describes magazines as simpy advertising in disguise (pics of clothes/accesories/products and features on celebs or products are the result of deals) which is true of Cosmo too. But Cosmo is praised by her as the first magazine to tell you how to get abortions and divorces, as well as the first to acknowledge femalesexuality/desire, and lately it seems to be regaining its role in pushing feminism forward.

I remember once reading an article online about a feminist who liked spanking from age 16 but thought being a feminist meant not being a sub in the bedroom. It took years for her to come to terms with this – she’s about 27 now. Thankfully things have changed. I feel that subbing is an assertion of female sexuality and power – ie “I wanna come. Spank me.” As a switch, I obviously don’t understand the issue as well as a femsub though.

Inspied by Onlinedatingjournal’s list of turn-ons, I’ll submit mine:

What I want to do to guys:

spanking…of course

rape

torture

lead and collar

pants pooping/wetting

nappies

babying, with high chairs, playpens etc

sissification

bondage

electric stuff

abstinence/virgin

Well, you’ll have to wait to see what I like done to me…it’s 5am here and I’m sooooooooooooo sleepy…Nighty-night!

 

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